Ever notice how with some people - if they take any extra effort, go the extra mile, note critical details - then they're adding quality to the process. It's all about how much you put in to get good out. The choice is valid and should be appreciated instead of hindered.
But somehow - when the shoe is on the other foot and YOU are taking extra steps, noting critical details with the goal of a better outcome - "You're overthinking it" "Stop being so nitpicky" "We don't have time for that" "Everyone's waiting" "Noone's going to notice but you"
One more definition for who has freedom and power in the situation. The one who gets to choose and overthink and nitpick over details.