Gender exists. Men and women exist. It is biological FACT of HOW GOD CREATED US. People had better accept it. I get that a smaller percentage of people biologically have anomalies, and another small percent may be emotionally unsure of where they are. That DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT that most people have a clear gender and are aware of what gender they have. It may be natural to occasionally wonder what it would be like to be the other gender, but that still means your gender is what it is. I bet a larger percentage of people have let their minds wander on that one. if not most people. Don't let gender politics hijack people's perception of their gender because of natural wonderings of the mind. There is nothing wrong with Mother's Day or Fathers' day. If you are offended that these holidays exist or that genders exist in reality then you need to either get over it or go live in a cave.