Man + Man + Woman = ???

So long story short, I live with my ex. We have been broken up for years, never did the 'friends with benefits' thing. I feel like I am a free agent. So a couple months ago his old friend starts to hang out with us, and I had an instant attraction. He's such a hottie, and has a heart of pure gold. A couple weeks ago, we found ourselves alone in a room for the first time, and he confesses to me that he has feelings for me. I tell him the same, and we kissed. Not just any kiss, but a 'God I'm so relieved I finally get to do this' kiss that makes time stop and winds cease. Now I find myself completely head over heels and in the biggest quandary of the year.  By some horrible coincidence, my roomie / ex states out of the blue today: "I dont want you to hook up with him. He just started hanging out again and I dont want you two to hang out all the time and leave me out." I am certain he has no clue we have made a connection already, but he knows me and the friend get along famously, and we have alot in common. Is what he is saying filled with vindiction? Does he just want to keep the friend all to himself or what?? I am so confused, I want to be with his friend soo terribly, but I dont want to screw up my living situation by making my roomie mad. Please, someone tell me something to make me stop crying.
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Josh, Investigator of the IT department,

but now he has started calling me

I just want to say so far that drkhealerof.all[filtered hyperlink] spell seems to be working from my ex boyfriend, my ex has not calling me for almost a whole month in a half, but now he has started calling me. He called me 3A.M this morning just to tell me he cant sleep. I was happy and shocked at 1 time. Its amazing and whats so amazing about the whole situation i cant get him out my mind it been only a week.. i was thinking about him at one point in time to the point i was giving up and was like.."owell forget it".. until i came to drk asking drk for help and now he's calling me and he is loving me more than i can think