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I need advise please. I am sexually attracted to my 15 year old (to be 16 next month) stepdaughter. I'm petrified for all the obvious reasons, her age, the fact that she's my stepdaughter, the fact that I'm married to her mom, and a billion other reasons that you can probably think of on your own. I'm also concerned because I think she has noticed that she arouses me when she's next to me and her skin touches mine. The first time she noticed that she aroused me, she became somewhat distant with me and would try not to be next to me. But recently she has been getting close to me again. She recently brushed my penis with her foot. I want to think it was an accident, but it happened about three times within the span of an hour. I got the feeling that she liked it. While due to my attraction to her I like the idea that she might enjoy knowing that she arouses me and might even purposely be starting to do things to arouse me, she is under age and more importantly, she's my stepdaughter. I don't want to ruin what we have by doing something stupid, but at times I feel like I can't control my feelings. What do you think? Has anyone been in this situation before? Are there any stepdaughters out there that can give me some constructive advise? Thank you.

posted to relationships by Dakota, Referee of the Hungry (30 comments)

Susan, Curator of Evil,

I have the same issue with my stepdaughter. She is 16 and I’ve been her father figure since she was 3. She has always been very comfortable with me when she was much younger and she would even shower with the door wide open. I never even thought of glancing but it all changed when she was 10 yo and I noticed that she had pubic hair while she was in the shower. I was instantly turned on and started looking at her body ever since. I would go into her room and sniff her worn underwear. This has made me very jealous about what she wears and is very stressful. I think my wife notices but she hasn’t brought it up yet. My sd often hugs me and rubs her small breasts against my arm or shoulder. I don’t plan on acting on my feelings but it’s driving me nuts! I know that acting on this will change everything for the worst so I hold back. Any advice?

Bobbie, Sheriff of Good,

My stepdaughter walks around in panties in time from time she accidentally brushes up against me getting water in I know she only curious but she is well developed for her age

Peyton, Servant of the Financial Services department,

How come I want to have sex with my 27 yr old exstep daughter

Rook, Wizard of Darkness,

Umm leave your wife. She obviously doesn't deserve this

Stevie, Clerk of the Financial Services department,

Forget the stepdaughter and fuck me. I don't fuck and tell. I really need a fuck tonight if you're up for it. I really need to be fucked hard. Please help me get fucked right now

Nikki, Counselor of Imagination,

Wait, you married her mother, that means you love her mother, not her. The fact she arouses you is no big deal. Even when you watch porn, do porn-stars make you feel aroused? Does it mean you have a thing for them? No. So why ruin your personal life for a ridiculously simple incident. Stay safe.

Blaine, Author of the craft table,

I can't even begin to tell u many times that I have peeked on my 27 year old stepdaughter naked through her old door hole with my pants down jerking off watching her in the nude. I even sniff her dirty panties when she's not around.

Elaine, Alchemist of the Hungry,


Cosmo, Author of the Hungry,

I am in the same situation, I cannot stop thinking about my step daughter and it drives me crazy. I am trying to control it but I'm losing. She is very hot and dresses as such around the house, takes photos of herself on my phone which I can't stop looking at. I really want to stop but I can't. The conditioning tip sounds good, I'll definitely try that

Blaine, Author of the craft table,

I smell my 27 year old stepdaughter's dirty panties when she's not around.

Charlie, Apprentice of the Satisfied,

I feel the same way. But my step daughter is nearly 18. There is some major sexual tension when we are near each other. This all started based on my suspicion that she was attracted to me based on a few observations. Then one day I saw water spots on my bathroom floor that couldn't have possibly come from that bathroom. After investigating it appears she was standing in my bathroom while I was masturbating and had wet hands that created the spots. A few days earlier I was home from the store no more than 10 minutes and she went into the bathroom and since it was quiet with no tv on, I heard obvious moans of masturbating. Several other times she was home alone for hours but masturbates only when I'm around. I once came out of my room from masturbating myself and discovered she started masturbating in the bathroom.

She is shy and an introvert like me so she hasn't thrown herself at me, but I know she has a thing for me. I also find myself very aroused by her since she is tall and thin and a great ass. Its so hard to ignored the fact that she lusts for me, and to make matters worse, her mother and I are on the verge of getting a divorce.

Before anyone criticizing me here is our story. I married my wife at 19 and started the immigration process, but she cheated on me and got pregnant with this daughter. We went our own ways for 7 years. Then started communicating again. She eventually made in here and the daughter followed 3 years later. I finally met the daughter when she was 15. We rarely speak, don't have anything resembling a parent child relationship. As of now, neither has acted on this, but as of this post this tension is only about a few weeks old. I feel if it continues sex will happen. She also has stopped going to school, and has no desire to date or make friends. She hasn't completed grade 10 and just sits around while the mom enables her by not forcing the issue. From the outside she seems normal but she seems to be struggling mentally but doesn't talk.

Just today we were both in the kitchen and felt major sexual tension and if others weren't around it probably would of ended with our first physical contact. She has nowhere to go so our options are me move out, somehow ignore it or act on it.

Elaine, Alchemist of the Hungry,

Give her the cock she craves.

Taylor, CEO of Imagination,

I was attracted to my step daughter too. I ended up acting on my attraction and now am paying for it dearly ... Legally paying for it. Think twice. Think 3 times. It doesn't matter if the girl wants you and teases you. My step daughter would wait for me to watch porn and then bust in my room and suck my dick while I watched porn. When her mom was gone she'd walk around in her underwear and sometimes no panties. Sometimes no bra. Yeah. Almost impossible to resist. These "kids" " teens" are not innocent but they will not be held responsible. You will. It will ruin your life. Anyone in this situation or any situation like it. Get out of there as fast as you can and go talk to a sexual therapist. Be careful because they are required by law to report all forms of child abuse. So if you've done anything and tell them you will be prosecuted. Hopefully this will help save someone's life. Hopefully this will help save a child from abuse or a man or woman from having their life destroyed.

Charlie, Apprentice of the Satisfied,

You've must have acted on it when she was a minor or under the age of consent. If she was 18 there is nothing illegal about having sex with a step daughter. Unless your state prohibits it under incest laws. Mine doesn't. In my position having sex with the step daughter is nothing more than me having sex with a co worker outside the relationship. Before acting I suggest people to brush up on their state laws on age of consent, child abuse . in my case I got luck since she didn't exhibit the sexual attraction till she was way over the age of consent.

Stevie, Lover of Musclebeasts,

Hi I am a stepdaughter I been talking to a boy on kik he is 15 I'm 12. We talked for like the past 2 weeks n my stepfathers phone was out n I saw he had kik n looked n it was the boys kik so I didn't tell him I know but I have fantasized about my stepdad. I want to tell him I know but I'm scared he might get mad.

Taylor, Clown of the Wildlands,

whats your kik?

Taylor, Lover of Imagination,


Dakota, Manager of Generosity,

I may be late to give you advice since you posted this over a month ago. But in the off chance you still need advice, please tell me, what do you guys talk about? Are the conversations innocent? What attracts you about your stepfather? Are you still a virgin?

Brett, Paladin of Time,

Idk I guess cause he is big

Taylor, CEO of Imagination,

Lol. That's hilarious...

Max, Crusader of Darkness,

He asked for help not criticism... My suggestion is psychological conditioning. Every time you see her, hear her, think of her; associate it with something that's a complete turn off. Do not allow yourself to have any sexual thoughts about her ever. Regardless of how strong she is in your mind if your masterbating or having sex she needs to be far from your mind or you will only reinforce it. Cause some minor inconspicuous pain to yourself when she arouses you. Make it where: sexual feelings of stepdaughter + arousal = pain. Research psychology based methods to condition yourself.

Peyton, Guardian of the Unimaginable Terror,

yeah , if wife finds out you are ruined - my step daughter is HOT but it's a good thing she don't think way about me . because if she did I'd sneak her off to a motel room some where . Of course I'm weak like that . Be strong dude if you love your wife .

Max, Attendant of the Lonely,

Emotions sometimes get out of hand and might seem not to be able to be control especially because you are all leaving under the same roof but nonetheless, you can control your feeling if you keep thinking negatively about it. I have done it several times and it does work for me. Think about the negative things your stepdaughter does (no one is perfect so she'll have some flaws) and dwell on it. Think and dwell on the repercussions if you do it, keep dwelling on it day in day out and u'll notice your feelings reducing gradually. Pls do not even contemplate sleeping with ur stepdaughter as you might go to jail and jail is not worth some few minutes of pleasure. I have been in that situation b4 where i got attracted to my bro in law but i was able t snap out of it b4 it went out of hand. Immediately I started thinking abt it, I had to think myself out ofit and Thank God I didn;t do anything stupid. & for those of you insulting him, I don't think you are in the right place to do that. Everybody has one issue or the other in life. He is seeking help thats why he posted his question. If he was just going to do it, he wldn't even come here so shuuuush..........

Shiki, Lord of the Satisfied,

Most men are hardwired to be attracted to younger and even underage girls. I had a friend tell me once that he'll catch himself looking at teen girls by accident because they dress terribly inappropriately for their age. He would never do anything but he said it disturbs him when he catches himself doing it. Sometimes he's excepting an adult though and realizes they aren't adults. I think it's some kind of primitive instinct that hasn't went away yet. A younger girl can be seen as better for child baring. I'm not sure how you control it but you are the adult and you have to be the one to put your foot down. Maybe therapy would help? And don't let her continue making passes at you. She could turn it against you if she wants. The law protects children from adults so you'd be screwed.

Stevie, Ranger of Darkness,

This is a mentally retarded perverted sick ignored after reading title.

Bobbie, Referee of the Idealistic,

Are you serious? Leave your wife immediately, and give her the respect she deserves. Clearly you're not in love with your WIFE. A 15 year old cannot make an informed decision, let alone, a choice regarding a relationship of this significance and all the fall out which would inevitably come. You make me so mad. You're a pedophile, why are you even contemplating this? LEAVE your poor wife. I hope somebody you know sees this and tells your wife. You are a worthless, pointless creature. Leave your wife, leave the family home, and never return. And mostly, leave the 15 year old girl alone. SHE IS A CHILD!!

Yoko, Thief of Time,

You need to brush up on your definitions. Pedophiles by definition are attracted to prepubescent children. A teenage girl past the age of puberty that is menstrating and able to bare children is a sexually attractive being. That does not mean that an adult should act on that attraction, but that does not make him a pedophile.

Estelle, Trollop of the Satisfied,

Since This man is Condemned by the public , why don't you go riot in the schools who want to pass out extra small condoms , and want your kids to be sexually confused . The only trauma here is, if he forced her , or if she did it willingly and told , then she'd go to court and tell how bad SHE was. this man is in a similar boat as me, I have all the Vicki files , all the Tara files Misty series , these are all on the news . Vicki's daddy got 50 years for repeated rape , lol It didn't look like rape to me . Hey will you suck my cock ? Vicki not only said yes, but said , she liked the taste of it -- Vicki's daddy got 50 , there where several cases people got caught with The Vicki files they got more time than he did. Who makes the laws ? The same ones caught in Pizza Gate Why haven't they been arrested ?

Estelle, Administrator of Good,

You're right, he's an ephebophile

Taylor, CEO of Imagination,

You're a stupid bitch...