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Ok you are supposed to love your family. well I have a confession to make. I hold no love in my heart for mine. Yes I respect them and "love" them but not in a family way. I love them as I love everyone who walks this earth. But my family honestly doesn't care about me. Yes I am still a teen. And this sounds like every other teenager. But honestly, one can only take so much lack of interest from the people whom are supposed to love and show at least a little interest in your life. With my mom this especially rings true. Where I live drugs are a big issue within our high school. We have pregnant teens, and a good majority of my peers go out drinking every friday. I am happy to say I am not one of those teens. No I am a band geek. I am in both National honors society and science national honors society, I am helping get a young life club in my school going, and I am in the top ten in my class of about 200. I would say that is pretty good. Not only do I do all that but I help out my mom the most in my family. Whenever she needs me whether it is to grab a remote two feet from her, or watch the baby, or clean the kitchen I am always there. So I balance a lot on my plate. But in her eyes it is not good enough. She asks about my day but doesn't LISTEN. She picks my stories apart and tears me down. Why didn't you do it this way, or why didn't you do better. and it is so frustrating. Sometimes I just need her to listen to not tear me down. In three full years of high school she has been to like 5 of my concerts/marching shows. I have had well over 50. And it hurts especially now my brother is in high school and plays for the football team. He plays for JV but he stands at varsity with a small shot to play. She was saying that she wanted to come to his game to watch him play. She didn't even mention listening to my performance. Which is true because she is going to leave before half time. I just feel like that in nine months from now I am going off to college. I won't be around as much anymore. I feel like she is going to regret not being there for me. And I feel bad for her, but in a way I feel like she brought this upon herself.

posted to life by Bobbie, Squire of Generosity (0 comments)

I HATE DONALD TRUMP! What is up with his orange skin, like an oompa loompa, and his ugly corn silk hair. If he's president we are all seriously doomed. He would be the worst president ever, and I will not vote for him.

posted to society by Ash, Deviant of the Wildlands (2 comments)

Senator Reid displayed in depth Democrat knowledge about electronic voting machines and that votes can be changed/rigged at any time. Reid said "I have recently become concerned that the threat of the Russian government tampering in our presidential election is more extensive than widely known and may include the intent to falsify official election results." This appears to be defacto proof that vote manipulation is an actual practice of the Democrat party, as has been believed for decades but never proven.

posted to society by Rook, Chef of Generosity (1 comment)

I've been out of dating seen for awhile I'm 54 red head attractive ,was just out of touch with the dating but I went on a dasdasting site and have dated a guy twice with veiw to more dates she I was on the dating scene I used to go have bikini wax but havnt in few years ,what way should a lady loom down there at 54 this is causing me greive ,I'm sexy and big busted but have been out off touch with sex

posted to relationships by Elaine, Sheriff of Evil (1 comment)

Extreme Facelift or Spackle? Which do you think she uses? Personally I think it's spackle.

posted to society by Rook, Devourer of Arts and Crafts (0 comments)

Every time we are faced with a serious decision it's like we are no longer in a relationship. I will ask for his genuine opinion and his thoughts on decisions I want to make based on my job or where I move....what house I buy, if we plan on moving together....serious things. He doesn't want to get involved and he tells me "it's up to you" . We have been together for 3 years it isn't JUST about me anymore, it's about us. He does the same thing for himself. Whenever he is going through something or he is faced with a life decision, he just shuts down and keeps me in the dark. I get minor details or he'll say "nothing is wrong, I'm fine" . I've expressed it time and time again how important it is to talk about "we" but he disagrees. He's 4 years older than me and we are both in our late twenties, we have been together for 3 years, and have basically been living together the whole time.....you'd think "we" would become a thing by now but I guess not. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Why does he make it seem like it's so unreasonable to assume we need to make some "US" plans and not "I" plans?

posted to relationships by Dana, Templar of the Irredeemably Moist (1 comment)

I have a "friend"...that sounds so cliche already. We met almost 4 years ago. He was into me. Things progressed. Then...he ran. After almost a year of not speaking of seeing each other, he turns up again out of the blue. Over the last year, we SLOWLY build the relationship to where it is now. About 2 months ago, he stopped touching me sexually. This was not the norm. I've tried asking him what's wrong. He just answers "It's not you, it's me." That's not really an answer in my opinion. The relationship (other than the sex life) is the best it has ever been. We can talk to each other about anything. I know he still wants me, but he refuses to touch me. He said he hopes that I know how much he respects me and that he wants me in his life forever. I have the fear that he will run again and that I will be left with no reasons or answers. Is he putting me in a friend zone of sorts? What is the deal?? I am completely confused. We act like we are in a relationship together. Anyone that meets us (friends included) think we've been together forever. What the hell am I missing?? Do I keep giving him time and remain patient with him? I don't want to rush anything. I just need to know where I stand.

posted to relationships by Addison, Sous Chef of the Irredeemably Moist (1 comment)

I'm a sexy but horny female thats ready and very much needing to get fucked. I want to either have an adventurous fuck in a car or in the hallway on the stairs. So of you could handle this mission and could come fuck me now give me your number and I will call with my address

posted to relationships by Frankie, Scout of the craft table (8 comments)

...I would be kind of pissed about that Taylor Swift line in "Famous." I'd never want my guy singing about fucking another woman. I mean... I get it, it's art/music/a statement/whatever, but I just don't get why she'd go with him writing that line.

posted to society by Peyton, Janitor of Arts and Crafts (0 comments)

Everyone thinks I'm happy. That I have everything I want. I have "the life every girl wants." the "relationship and family that every girl dreams of." Im a 21 year old wife of almost 5 years, we have a beautiful baby, our own home. What more could a girl need, right?

It's the emotional abuse, the fights, the being told that the man you love doesnt find you attractive and wants another woman/women because you gained weight to pregnancy. My past of rape, pyscial abuse, my parents not wanting me, and now this...I struggle daily to fight to urge. No one believes me, why should they? They all mention that I can't smile at them daily and secretly be dealing with depression..... I need help...but who is there to turn to when no one can see past themselves?

posted to life by Addison, Chef of the Wicked (4 comments)

Masturbation

advice

Common question, but to this day is still highly debated by many people from common advocates of the holy bible, to scholars...I've been looking for a clear answer to this question for a very long time and I'm hoping someone can answer it for me...is masturbation a sin? Please, if anyone answers this question, be able to answer it using the holy bible. Other sources are welcomed, but scripture is a must.

posted to religion by Andy, Shadow of Wild (6 comments)

I'm not parental at all, and I'm really awkward around kids. However, I've been in a fantastic relationship with someone, S, who has kids from a previous marriage, and it's great. I told S at the beginning of the relationship not to expect a lot in terms of parental support, because I wasn't comfortable with it yet, and S said that was fine. We get them every few days for a few days at a time, so it hasn't been too much for me to handle. I've grown more accustomed to making them snacks, helping with homework, and maintaining discipline, but it can still be a little uncomfortable. That said, it's getting easier everyday, and if I'm having a tough time, I can just tell myself, three days, and you'll get a break.

Here's the thing: The other parent, L, is fucking worthless. To make a long story short, L has a dirty house, doesn't feed/take care of the kids when they're there, does nothing to challenge them intellectually, and is overall negligent, paying more attention to a new spouse instead. L has been planning on moving away with the spouse, and has been very secretive of where. S and I are friends with one of L's coworkers, and that friend said L is planning on moving across the country and leaving the kids behind. L hasn't told us this. Given L's careless behavior toward the kids and the fact that L makes excuses all the time for us to keep the kids on L's days tells us that L is planning on making the move soon.

On one hand, it's awesome, because the kids won't have a toxic parent in their lives anymore, and I'm at the point where I feel a bit more confident in helping them grow. On the other hand... I'm not ready to have them full-time. Don't get me wrong, I love S very much, and S's kids are great, but to have to spend every evening with them and never have time to go do something for ourselves makes me sad and anxious. A good example was, just this morning, the youngest kid was sitting on the couch not doing much to get ready for school. I told the kid to brush their teeth, and the kid immediately starts whining at me that they did it yesterday and didn't need to do it today. I explained calmly as possible that morning breath needs to be taken care of, so the kid kind of pouty-faced stomps into the bathroom, just in time for S to come up the stairs and as the kid what's wrong. My point is, I'm trying to fill the gaps L is leaving in their lives (including hygiene, because there isn't much of that at the other house), but it feels like everything I do is wrong and makes them unhappy.

I know I could take a day or two away and go stay with one of my parents when it gets too stressful, but that just seems like a cop out, like what L is doing to them, and I know S would be upset and worry that I wasn't happy anymore. I'm just not sure I'm ready to do this...

posted to life by Addison, Dark Queen of the Rich (2 comments)

I hate to have to say that outloud, but it's true.  Today she made me so made that tears of anger washed my face.  I haven't felt that kind of anger in a long time. My sister is in a much higher tax bracket than I am and she makes no bones about how much better she is than me.  She talks down to me as if I were nothing.  I love her and yet I hate her. She can make a room full of people feel awkward just with her mood.  It's palpable.  It's like she needs to be personally invited to every family event there is.  And we aren't a formal bunch.  If my mom calls her in the morning and she's busy then, she expects another call later inviting her again closer to the time of  a meal.  My mom bulls up and won't do that and my sister gets offended and says she's "out of the loop". She always says that sarcastically to me like I'm the one keeping her out of the loop.  That's not true at all.   She won't call my parents and they won't call her.  Both thinks the other should do the calling.  Somehow I get put squarely in the middle as I have my whole life.  Each asks me what the other is up to.  Today my sister brought up an instance where she thought she was slighted about being asked to a flea market.  (Although she said I brought it up, which I didn't.)  She was asked the night before and said maybe. The next morning she was asked again and said no because she had been, "left out of the loop." See, she wants to be invited again and again. So, today I told her that maybe in the future if she feels I'm keeping her out of the loop that she should talk directly with my parents. She tells me I'm making an issue out of things and that she does not need my drama.  My drama?  Please.   She said that we would just continue as we always do.  I said, "Alright then.  Have a nice day." I am 46 years old and older than here.  I will not be treated like that anymore.  I've let her walk all over me my entire life and I'm done.  I will not buffer her sand paper personality for my parents any longer.  She can show her true colors. Right now I am so angry at her that I spit nails. She's a bitch and bullying one at that.  She's got a vicious mouth when she's angry. She'll pick an agrument and then tell me it's my drama. Fuck her.
posted to relationships by Blaine, Lover of Time (273 comments)

last year i went on a couple dates with a coworker i had a crush on. he seemed to be pretty into me too. on day he came over to hang out. we cuddled, things got a little heated,and i decided i wanted to have sex with him. so we go upstairs and we're both really into it. suddenly he wasn't able to perform. i don't mean that he couldn't get it up, but he just couldn't do it. i know that's vague. he got really flustered and apologized a bunch, saying he really wanted to impress me and felt like an idiot. i really didn't see it as a big deal, so we went back downstairs and hung out for another hour before he went home. a week later, he broke it off, saying he didn't think it was a good time to be dating because of our working relationship. it wasn't a big deal, as i was really only interested in a casual thing anyway. but it was a curveball that left me thinking, and i still wonder about it to this day.

do you think he was actually not that interested in me? maybe he didn't like the way i looked naked? or do you think he was TOO into me and worried about making himself look stupid? he said he was nervous and was trying to impress me, so i'm kind of confused. i mean, it doesn't matter now, we both moved on and are actually still friends, but the whole thingw as bizarre

posted to relationships by Addison, CEO of Time (1 comment)

So long story short, I live with my ex. We have been broken up for years, never did the 'friends with benefits' thing. I feel like I am a free agent. So a couple months ago his old friend starts to hang out with us, and I had an instant attraction. He's such a hottie, and has a heart of pure gold. A couple weeks ago, we found ourselves alone in a room for the first time, and he confesses to me that he has feelings for me. I tell him the same, and we kissed. Not just any kiss, but a 'God I'm so relieved I finally get to do this' kiss that makes time stop and winds cease. Now I find myself completely head over heels and in the biggest quandary of the year.  By some horrible coincidence, my roomie / ex states out of the blue today: "I dont want you to hook up with him. He just started hanging out again and I dont want you two to hang out all the time and leave me out." I am certain he has no clue we have made a connection already, but he knows me and the friend get along famously, and we have alot in common. Is what he is saying filled with vindiction? Does he just want to keep the friend all to himself or what?? I am so confused, I want to be with his friend soo terribly, but I dont want to screw up my living situation by making my roomie mad. Please, someone tell me something to make me stop crying.
posted to relationships by Shiki, Writer of the IT department (111 comments)

are white guys really attracted to black women? or is it just a "yolo" feeling? and if so why are so many either scared or never able to approach them if they do like them? I just really want an understanding on this whole fetish thing. A guy awhile back told my friend he's intrigued by the whole "dark chocolate aspect" but he also said he has a fetish for nationalities. I don't know whether to be offended or okay with that statement. PLEASE HELP!!!

posted to relationships by Harper, CTO of the Satisfied (8 comments)

Tattoos are just mental illnesses you wear on your skin. They are obscene and filthy, just like the degenerates who have them. Everyone who has tattoos is a left-wing, druggie criminal. They are a plague on society and one of the big factors in civilization's downfall. Anyone who disagrees with me has tattoos.

posted to society by Ash, Developer of the Financial Services department (17 comments)

The last time I was this emotionally unstable was when I was confused about my romantic feelings towards him. I knew it wasn't serious because I got over him pretty quickly. Darn you, puppy love! To be fair, he had no idea how I felt about him so I never got a chance to find out how he felt about me. Some people see that as a waste or a missed opportunity. Opportunity to what exactly? It wasn't the right time, we had different mindsets and goals in life, so we might have saved both of us from an inevitable heartbreak. And hey, I have every right to be picky about my romantic interests. I see him in a new relationship now and realize, yeah, good riddance. If we were together now and he acted the way he did now with his current girlfriend, my life would be infinitely miserable.

Yet, I see all these people around me in relationships, desperate to be in one or just seemingly content as a single person. That's me. Well, at least that's the façade I put up. Depending on the mood, I'm completely content about my situation, especially if I see my friends' relationships going haywire. Then there are days, when I wonder what was wrong with me and if it got really bad, I would go to bed with a broken heart and my pillows soaked in tears. The next day, I'm fine and I scold myself for giving in to my petty and shallow emotions.

It's only natural to long for a beautiful storybook relationship. What words of wisdom can I really offer at the age of 23? I've never been really in love. I've never felt what it was like to offer your life to someone in exchange for their undying romantic love and affection. Some people envy me for my so-called "innocence". But I find that those who envy my singleness were in bad relationships. In my opinion, any kind of relationship takes teamwork. If you're in a bad team, you might as well quit. That's why batman works alone.

I get into this blissful phase where the days are beautiful and the problems I typically worry about are beyond me. My triggers are when I see a sweet old couple holding hands or I watch a really good movie about how love is what made them go on through thick and thin. I'm reminded that I'm lonely. I probably deserve that kind of happiness, but I feel like it's just taking too darn long.

I'm sure I'm one of the millions upon millions wallowing in the single pool. Correction. Make that the ocean of singles. I'm just drowning in my emotions. Some people are more open about what they want. When they're looking, they hunt and they prey on the innocent. It's pretty bold but sometimes it works. You get the word around that you're single and ready to mingle; potential partners will come flocking in your direction. See, I've never had that happen to me before. I guess they don't see me as a potential partner? The problem with some people in my generation is how they depend on a person's artificial personality to determine their mate. Oh yeah, they claim that they look beyond appearance, but innately and scientifically, attraction is usually associated with how you look.

Well, I don't have anything to conclude my late night thoughts. Just wanted to get this out there I guess. Writing this was like a sigh of relief, but I ended up sounding like a generic lovesick millenial.

Peace out.

posted to life by Andy, Soldier of Justice (1 comment)

Particularly if one is in a committed relationship with someone else?

Why or why not?

What are the limits of the friendship?

posted to relationships by Rook, Ninja of Arts and Crafts (9 comments)

It's so not fair. I'm too awkward to make lots of real friends, so it would make sense to make lots of internet friends. I follow these accounts on Instagram and they're all like 'What would I do without my internet friends??' etc... and I'm like this sounds great, letSs make some INTERNET FRIENDS!! Just to realize I'm even to awkward online to make any... I can't even comment on people's post and I've just come to the conclusion that I'm just not great at making friends.

lol

plz help

I'm lonely

jk you don't have to

posted to relationships by Bobbie, Druid of the Rich (9 comments)

I am a Chilean white blonde woman looks thin, amber eyes that have college education and wants to marry a black man aged between 30-49 years. I want radicarme in the US or Canada. my intention is to have a lasting marriage. You can see information about my education and job training on my website or looking for my full name. Victoria Andrea . my English is basic and speak Spanish. I can not have children and I'm 42 years old.

posted to relationships by Cosmo, Alchemist of Justice (3 comments)

Ok so my school i crazy about clothes girls wear right so i wore a shirt that did not cover my shoulder (but was 3 finger wide which most schools obay by 2 fingers across) and a teacher stopped me and said oh hunny your gonna have to change we cant have you walking around like that. I asked why not and she said that it can distract people. So i rolled my eyes at her and said "Look lady. It is 100 degrees outside. Its fucking hot so im gonna wear stuff so that i can keep cool. Now if my shoulder distracts someone then they have some serious issues and should reconsider their life." Like really!!! Its not like im wearing a damn bikini so get over it!

posted to school by Peyton, Lady of the Night of Space (2 comments)

I was in Middle school, back then we called it Junior High. I was in the ninth grade. First I’ll tell you, that I was bullied in a different kind of way. Instead of beating me up like most bullies do, I was the kid that every time something happened they blamed me for it, and I would get a beating. Some of them were so severe that it left me with blisters and welts a crossed my back and legs. Don’t get me wrong I was no angel, but still , I would get into trouble almost every time some kid would do something , whether I was there or not . One day I was sitting in class , and I was called to the principle’s office , and when I got there , the principle told me I was suspended and she had called my parents . I couldn’t figure out why , she actually said I was lucky I wasn’t arrested . I got home , and when I walked into the house my father hit me full fist right in the face . I was hit several times , still not knowing why . After my mother pulled him off me , she explained that he had to pay for a couple windows that had been broken at the school. I explained to my mother that I had nothing to do with any broken windows. She said there was a little red haired boy in the office when they got there , and he told the principle that I broke those windows , and he saw me do it . She told me the kid’s name was Eric ,and I knew the kid . I couldn’t figure out why he walked into the office and lied to me . Five days later I’m back in school , I see Eric go into the bathroom , well I hurt him bad . Have you ever seen W.W.E superstar do a snake eyes ? That’s what I did to Eric on a bathroom sink . as I was walking out another kid was walking in , I told him , you say a damn word you’ll be laying next to him . I walked right out of the school , and started home . Before I got home , The police picked me up . Kind of hard to deny what I done , Eric’s blood was on my pant legs . I served the rest of my Teen years in Boy’s Village . as for Eric well, they couldn’t save him . The judge asked me back then if I had any remorse ? I told him no the kid got what he deserved . But at least I didn't shoot the school up.

posted to school by Hazel, Druid of the Forgotten Lands (0 comments)

god damn it. you know, fuck you. i took a short lunch because the office cunt called in sick today, i work my ass off and all you can do is note that i left a caller on hold for "too long"? Really? I actually sold a job on that 2nd call you fucking douche. And the other line was some twat who was just wasting my time. Did I say fuck you yet? Fuck you. I am scrambling to find a new job to get away from your nano-managing bullshit. ass
posted to work by Blaine, Priest of Time (2 comments)

My land and reparations or more of you devils will be headed to hades very soon

  • Zeus
posted to society by Cosmo, Samurai of the Hungry (1 comment)

In Hillary Clinton’s inner circle, it’s common knowledge that there are times she’s so low-energy that she blanks out for hours. When that happens, she is given to strange mental spells during which she has little or no control over what she says and does. She sometimes mutters things no one can understand. My colleagues in the mainstream media are covering all this up, but the time has come to speak out. We simply can’t elect a president subject to such mysterious health issues.

posted to society by Frankie, Author of Light (0 comments)

Sexual need

confession

Being horny all the time with no dick to fill my every need sucks.! I love having hot passionate sex but I also enjoy having hard rough sex... Whips, handcuffs, oil, and a nice big hard dick that can satisfy my needs is what I've been looking for. Anybody in California that can fulfill my desires? Im an 18 year old female from the Socal  area.   Looking for a guy from age 18-26.  If your interested download the app Kik and leave your user name as a comment I'll IM you... ;)

posted to life by Blaine, Chef of the Lonely (5 comments)

if friends make fun of you are they really you friend ? what should I do ? if i complain i get told I'm too sensitive but if i do it to her she's allowed to be offended... we are best friends and i love her but i just want her to know that i don't appreciate it without starting a fight, so i came here... what should i do ? should i pluck up the courage or just leave it? its not like its something that happens every minute of everyday so maybe i should leave it... but another part is telling me i shouldn't. i give her the cold shoulder sometimes but i really really don't want us to grow apart. what should i do ?

posted to school by Brett, Keeper of the Idealistic (1 comment)

Hiel Hillary

confession

The Washington Times reported: Hillary Clinton’s presidential campaign has received more than $20,000 in donations contributed by members of the Ku Klux Klan, a prominent member of the hate group said Monday. “For the KKK, Clinton is our choice,” said Will Quigg, California Grand Dragon for the Loyal White Knights, Vocativ reported. Mr. Quigg, the leader of the Klan’s California chapter, announced last month that he had abandoned supporting Republican presidential front-runner Donald Trump in lieu of backing his likely Democratic opponent. The Klansman claims that members have raised more than $20,000 for Mrs. Clinton and have donated it anonymously to her campaign. “She is friends with the Klan,” Mr. Quigg told Vocativ. “A lot of people don’t realize that.”

posted to society by Nadine, Trollop of the Idealistic (1 comment)

Politicians like Hillary are among the master race, modern day slave masters. The Democrat's established black americans as their slave class ever since they started the war on poverty. The war has been going on for over 50 years, and not once has their slave class been close to being lifted out of poverty. Every policy that they have created has had two goals. First to keep their slaves from realizing their potential and gaining their freedom, and second to cloud their minds to make them think that their Democrat masters are really looking out for them. This keeps them nice and docile (toward the Democrat party), while the house blacks, like Jackson and Sharpton, direct the slaves in more public actions, like Ferguson. If a Douglass, or King, or Marshall were to arise today and show the slaves what is really happening, the Democrat party couldn't put together an many followers as the Green party today. When Trump calls for black americans to vote for him, Hillary immediately started yelling racism and hate. Can you guess why?

posted to society by Charlie, Alchemist of the Rich (0 comments)

It is beyond my understanding why anyone would consider voting for Hillary Clinton. Can anyone give me one reason to vote for her, not based on voting against Trump.

posted to society by Rook, Summoner of the Wildlands (6 comments)

As I here laying in my bed I can feel my heart slowly breaking. Not knowing is the hardest part. I have been my ex's side chick for 21 years. He fell ill and has been diagnosed with cancer. I have no clue what the prognosis is because he can't call or text because his family is with him 24/7 now. So I just cry myself to sleep not knowing if I will ever see him or talk to him again. All I know is his cancer is really bad. I have to act fine like nothing is wrong because I have my own family. No one has a clue that my heart is breaking. How do u let go???I love him so much and I can't imagine my life without him. I feel like my heart is dying a slow and painful death. I would not wish this on my worst enemy.

posted to relationships by Bobbie, Paladin of Time (4 comments)

I have worked the same job for 12 years now and earn a fairly high salary for the type of work/industry I am in. Higher than people at other similar companies in the same position make after 20 years….. My husband has been unemployed since MARCH and just this week started looking for work in earnest because his measly little $500 every two weeks from unemployment is about to end. He is a 46 year old wannabe rock star that wasted time and money to go to school to become a sound/recording engineer. He spends tons of money on his crappy equipment and is convinced he is going to take off as the next big producer or that one of his own overprocessed 80’s throwback songs is going to be a hit.
He quit smoking to go to vape and in the course of the past year has broken or lost 3 mod rigs costing $150-350 each by the time batteries, chargers, tanks and coils have been replaced. Since APRIL he has gone thru 2 iPhones (I have insurance thru my carrier but the deductible is still $150 to replace them and it’s from his mistakes (getting drunk at the river and damaging one phone by burying it in wet sand for hours to hide it while he was gold panning – yes I said gold panning - and another from passing out on the lawn when the sprinklers came on) let alone needing a pair of headphones every 3 weeks because he breaks them and chargers that he loses (but swears they were stolen – by who and when?). And then the piece de resistance is that he has a partial denture for his front 4 teeth that with my dental coverage still cost about $600 out of pocket to get. He goes to a concert with his adult daughter (my step daughter) and her husband and LOST his dentures….. LOST THEM!!! IN THE MOSH PIT!!!! AT AGE 46!!!! And prescription glasses he can’t find. And new clothes for interviews (should he ever get one) that get car grease stained or torn helping the neighbors in exchange for beer and/or weed. I get called a control freak and get made out to be the bad guy because I don’t want to invest any more money into his ‘studio’ or I complain that I get no help with household chores like dishes or laundry when he is home all day every day. He says he is working. On his music. His art. And I don’t appreciate it so just think he’s playing when it’s a process just as demanding as my work. At only 20 months in I am ready to just cut my losses and walk away from this marriage.

posted to relationships by Andy, Ninja of the Homeless (5 comments)

Ok so I met this guy at chickfila and he was all smiley at me and flirty teasing me. I gave him my number and he texted me a few times. My friemd took my phone and asked if he liked me but he said he didn't like anyone ,but he answered my phone calls ( they were short though) . Does this mean I was led on or is he just shy. My friend asked him by text btw

posted to relationships by Adrian, Cleric of Wild Parties (1 comment)

So...Im a teenager who was raised to be Christian, but in middle school I converted to Atheism. I felt fine about it. You know, not having to worry about anything, I even got over my ex boyfriend whom I reallly liked for 3 yrs. and found a  new guy! (who..didn't work out, lol) But then..I slowly converted to being an Agnostic-believing in God but not the Bible. Again, I felt alright. &then my extremeeellyyy religious aunt started taking me to Church &stuff..and telling me all about Heaven and Hell &I became a Christian..but the more I think about it..the more I realized I only became religious through fear of God punishing me! (&getting my prayers answered) &I'm still sooooooooo frightened of that man. I'm in fear EVERY SINGLE DAY OF MY LIFE now. I have OCD, now. Always thinking he's going to do something horrible to me to test me &I'm only human! You can only push us so far before we completely lose hope! Especially me.. Because I'm so ignorant and naive. On the other hand, I lovelovelovee my Jesus(: Lol. Because of what he's done for us and I can just imagine him..healing people...So, why can't I do the same with his Father? I don't like being scared of the higher power who gave me life..But I am. &I'm not sure what I'm going to do about it? He can damn us all. He can do whatever he wants if we don't praise him. We're nothing compared to the high powers... Dear God, you scare the life out of me. Please, please show me you're not going to harm me. ? =\
posted to religion by Dakota, Shadow of Justice (24 comments)

The Democrat Party denounced it's main ideological driver. The Hillaryites are trying to link the Nazi ideals with the Republican candidates. That's like trying to say that BLM is a front for the KKK. The Nazi's, or if you prefer the "National Socialist" party, want to control everything. From making children wear helmets to ride tricycles to dictating what treatments doctors may give the near dead elderly. From taxing everything that doesn't move to confiscating anything that they think you couldn't have possibly earned. Just as Hillary said just recently, that she wanted to do away with the 1st and 2nd amendments, her Nazi party believes their power is the only thing that matters. So when Hill has her brown shirts disrupting and attacking the opposition party meetings; when 95% of the media refuse to address Hill's lies and sort comings (even Goebbels didn't achieve that level); when her party refuse to address the plight of the innercitys, it's hillaryous that she puts the Nazi lable on Trump.

posted to society by Nadine, Butcher of Wild Parties (0 comments)

So you've found yourself an interest And I'm happy for you except thats a conflict of interest

See i loved you  like no other And now there is another But when i saw you it was like we were still with one another

So what changed between then and now Did you lie, did you use me or "you didnt know" somehow

Those 7 little words crushed me Even though i knew 7 would soon mean nothing The door has closed for 7 to be something

This time im letting go I can hurt for her no more Time to watch her grow

posted to relationships by Lisa, Sommelier of the Financial Services department (3 comments)

Today is the day that I feel like kissing my dreams of marriage away. I just keep having this feeling of being unwanted. My second year of college, just two days in, feels a whole lot different than last year. Being bombarded with memories from everywhere I look that I cannot seem to run away from. Thousands of people walking from class to class in a synchronized matter. No life to them. Smiles are gone. Wiped completely out. Day to day the same thing. Taking step after step hoping to hit that one spot that will change my life. Or let alone, finding that one girl with the world in her eyes. Handmade from God himself. Only chasing her to chase after God. Clear skies offer no defense from the sun, no defense from the haunts of the universe, let alone the world itself. Limited clouds bring momentary shielding from the sun. Offer a quiet, cool place to recover from the ever existent sun that allows us the see the troubles in the daylight. Although night brings troubles of its own many do not view.

posted to life by Aubrey, Rockstar of the Forgotten Lands (1 comment)

That night before your flight you chose me to spend your last night with, even though we were not together and had broken up i still remained in your head.The morning with both tears in our eyes said nothing but was so much at the same time. You then left, messaged and skyped me a few times and then......then she came along and wow is she beautiful, you post about her all the time on FB for my hurting heart to see and yes i have tried to move on and met a few amazing guys along the way they never made me feel like you did or made me smile just by looking at then, THEY WERE NOT YOU, and now the one night that i meet a guy who shows me how it feels to be excited again and ignited that spark in me again you decide to message me telling you coming home and just those words hit my heart like you knew after this past year that you've been gone i got my spark again you decide to confuse me. I dont know what to do, you know my love for you is like no other but im done being hung up on someone who shows me no commitment

posted to relationships by Charlie, Attendant of Darkness (2 comments)

My school has this rule where if you have an illness that is treated by medication they must be kept in the office no exceptions . I was wondering if this still counted with things such as type 1 diabetes insulin pumps or epipens because they might be needed all the time. I also have been reading about 504 plans for type 1 diabetes and allergies saying that it is a right for a person to eat or treat themselves at anytime needed / have pump epipen with them at all times. Does the 504 plan automatically overwrite the school rules? Thank you

posted to life by Shiki, Author of the craft table (0 comments)

So I'm female and one of my female friends has been trying to get with me for months now and I was so oblivious that she had to say the actual words and ask me. Anyways point is I'm in college and I made out with a couple girls but I like boys but I'm also very open to exploring my sexuality. She told me she liked me and wanted to start seeing me exclusively. She is my friend and I'm just worried that she might end up hurt because I do not if this is what I want but I also don't object it either. Any advice would be appreciated

posted to relationships by Max, Pope of Darkness (4 comments)

I have a super important Phys. Ed test in one month. The only problem is, I'm gonna be visiting family until then. I don't have my kit or anything here and I don't feel like buying a bunch of new stuff here when I just got some back home- I'm trying to motivate myself, and get into a morning workout routine, but it's so difficult with family and birthdays and doing all these things, and fitting in a workout, let alone actually staying motivated and sticking to it. Please help, I need, motivation? I guess? D:

posted to school by Blaine, Scout of Justice (5 comments)

I fear I may not make it to heaven.

I fear I can not ever be forgiven for every word I've ever said, thought I've ever thought, and deed I've ever done.

I fear I may not "be able" to repent of every pleasurable forbidden desire.

I fear Jesus will never live in my heart and change me from the wretch that I am.

So, if I do go to an eternity in hell,

while I am burning alive, continuously, and without end,

If I have the presence of mind enough to do so,

I'll take comfort in one and only one thing:

my unpleasant memory of a large number of the people in heaven -

how that many of them I knew, knew me, but didn't care about me -

didn't have time for me -

gave up on me -

and rejected me -

even when I pleaded with them to help me.

they even talked about me to each other

how can I look forward to meeting such people again, in heaven?

so outwardly concerned about not doing the bad stuff,

while seeming to care so little about doing the good stuff

out of more than simply being obedient and keeping the rules

especially the second greatest commandment

that they should love their neighbors as themselves

I cannot imagine spending eternity with such "fair weather friends"

so while I'm weeping and gnashing my teeth,

enraged at myself for losing my opportunity to have what they have in paradise

and losing my opportunity to escape the reality that is now mine,

I'll remember that one thing I won't be missing their love

because they didn't have any for me

posted to religion by Frankie, Druid of Time (5 comments)

It's so weird when I think about it too hard but I have strong Christian values and yet I'm "sexualay inclined" at 15...I love feeling myself dammit. I can't even remember when I started doing so! Its my guilty pleasure, but sometimes I really dont feel guilty. Ugh I wish I knew somebody who felt the same way. Thank God for this website.

posted to religion by Aubrey, Shepherd of Space (8 comments)

Christians

advice

Although not all Christians are the same Christianity as a whole is the weight and burden on humanity. Condemning everyone else who does not worship Jesus to hell and to unsavedness. Those who give in to this religion and scapegoat another for their sins are then spiritually lifted up in the troposphere and are exalted in mid sky and it is that energy which weighs down everyone else. These raptured Christians spiritually take their orders from angels of false light who serve Satan who claims to be lord. It is a dual system where the devils take their orders from the same entity and they attack people until they give in to the darkside or beg for god to save them and hand over their sovereign souls to this entity. They will never listen to the truth because they are owned by this lie. They put their faith in this lie. They are emotionally invested in this lie. The right thing to do is not always the easy thing. The right thing usually never pays off in a world controlled by Satan who is the Pope of Rome. Most will utterly deny this and they will pay for it in the long run.

  • Zeus
posted to religion by Blaine, Ninja of Generosity (2 comments)

What do i do

advice

The love of my life (ex) just messaged me after 6 months of not talking to one another while he has been in the UK saying that hes coming home out of the blue and thats all he said that hes coming home just when i met someone who seems like he does genuinely care for me and have a great connection with but he is not my ex, what do i do?

posted to relationships by Morty, Pope of the Hungry (5 comments)

In our beginning, we knew life and death. It ruled everything about our lives. The currency of life was strength, and if you were poor in strength... you died. This being the only law of the land, early man lived a pretty brutal existence with only the strong thriving, and the weak dying or being exploited by the strong. It was a brutal, savage world relative to today. This brutal world had at least one thing in common with the world you know, it was ever changing and evolving, full of highly social empathetic creatures.

If you're familiar with the tides of humanity, you'd know that when times were their most brutal and savage, it was acts humanity that broke the chains of fear and set forth winds of change. From Jesus and Saint Paul, to Lincoln and Gandhi, our history is full of great examples. Why has it not become the norm? Is it because the term is poorly defined? One definition is, "the quality or state of being human." Another says, "the quality or state of being kind to other people or to animals." This implies that kindness is the distinguishing characteristic that separates humans from animals. I would tend to agree, given that early humanoids show increasing signs of empathy as the Hominid genome evolved.

What is kindness? That's another that's hard to define. If you spend enough time thinking it through, you may find that all kindness is an example of someone with a strength helping someone with a weakness; the strong helping the weak. Whether it be the older child that steps between the bully and the victim, or the lady who covered your grocery bill when you forgot your wallet. Perhaps it's the nurse who adopts the terminal cancer patient's cat, or the motivational speaker who gives a voice to the voiceless.

Why isn't Humanitarianism the norm? One reason is the perversion of true Humanitarianism, such as Communism and Socialism. Anti-humanitarian ideals such as Imperialism, Capitalism, Fascism, and the like. These are enemies of freedom.

Another in the way of progress is the increasingly non-existent wall between church and state, as well as bank and state. Your political leaders are motivated mainly by the desire to get into office. What do they do? They raise money. To get money, they have to get investors to like them. What's the quickest way to get an investor to like you? Promise them things. So, the investors and the candidate team up, and now they have to get voters to like them. How do they do that? Promise them things. See the pattern?

Now the candidate makes promises to investors motivated by profit and voters, motivated by religion, culture, or other underrepresented ideals. Too often what happens is the ideals of the voters and the profits of the investors don't match up. And whose promises get kept? The ones that are backed by money, because debt is the true king of Capitalism.

How would Humanitarianism work as a government? It would have to start as a way of life. The strong caring for the weak. Once that became the people's main motivation, then we can really start to build. Basic human rights such as housing, fresh water, and food are provided. The ONLY divide between humanity is the self-declared weakness or strength of each individual. The strong are held to a higher standard, but it earns them a voice, while the self proclaimed weak is represented by the strong in government while being encouraged to find their strengths through federally funded self-building projects.

There is no shame in being weak for it is in your weakness that the true Humanitarian finds fulfillment. Is that not what we all crave?

posted to life by Ari, Funeral Director of the Irredeemably Moist (0 comments)

We are all aware of the crazy dramatic and a tad bit ridiculous show, The Bachelorette. I always hated watching this show because it's so bizarre... People voluntarily go on this show to date someone who is also dating 20+ other people, gross. The finale of this show typically ends with the bachelor/bachelorette being in love with two people and having to choose who they are more in love with. This I always thought was crazy because you can't love two people equally? Well turns out I was wrong. I'm in my early twenties and have been dating this guy for three years. We have been great and in love for so long. Being at separate schools across the state was easy for us... Until I met guy #2: the complete opposite "type" of guy I have ever gone for before. Guy number two is fantastic. He has big goals for himself, similar to my own, loves God and learning... And he's also into me. We had similar classes so we studied a lot together and became good friends, until one day outside of class he revealed he was no longer into me as just a friend and in that moment I finally admitted to myself I had feelings for him too. I thought forsure in that moment I was going to leave my boyfriend to be with him. We had all these plans on how we were going to make long distance work once we finished school and it was great. Now, fast forward 6 months later. I'm still with my boyfriend of three years and have dropped all communication with guy #2. I thought this was the only fair thing to do. I love my boyfriend to pieces and we are living in the same town again. We have never talked about getting married because frankly, I don't see myself marrying him and he doesn't want to think about marriage for another decade. What I have with him is great; he makes me feel special in so many ways. As I have discovered and worked on getting closer to God over the past 6 months (out of curious out built from guy #2) I'm still left questioning life with him and my life feels a bit empty without him. I'm beginning to admit to myself that my tiny crush I had 6 months ago has now flourished to a much greater love. Never in a million years did I think I could get a man like him and now he's standing right in front of me and I am walking right past him. Never in a million years did I think reality tv shows like the Bachelorette would actually be a reality, but I've been wrong plenty of times before. I love my boyfriend and I love this other guy. I find myself thinking about both all the time. I get butterflies talking to my boyfriend as well as miss and feel empty not talking to guy #2. I pray a lot for clarity and guidance and I hope I don't have to go another 6 months until I find clarity. But, several times when you don't think God is listening, he is; he's just testing you and pushing you to handle this yourself. Phillipians 4:13

posted to relationships by Addison, Manager of the Wildlands (1 comment)

 In Our beginning We knew life and death. It ruled everything about our lives.  The currency of life was strength, and if you were poor in strength... you die.  This being the only law of the land, you might think early man lived a pretty brutal existence with only the strong thriving, and the weak dying of or being exploited by the strong. Usually you would be right. It was a brutal savage world relative to the Day and age you know. This, brutal world, Had at least one thing in common with the world you know, it was an ever changing evolving world full of Highly social empathetic creatures of many types.   
    If your familiar with the tides of humanity, you know that when times are the most Brutal, and savage that it was the acts Humanity that break the chains of fear, and set forth the winds of change.  From Jesus and saint Paul, to Lincoln, and Gandhi. our history are full of great examples of humanity. Why has it not become the norm? Is it because Humanity is poorly defined? One definition is " The quality or state of being Human."Another sails " The quality or state of being kind to other people or to animals".   This understanding imply that Kindness is The distinguishing characteristic  that separates Humans from the  animals. I would tend to agree given that early humanoids show increasing signs of empathy as the Hominid genome evolved. 
    What is Kindness?  Hats another that hard to define. If you spend enough time thinking it through You may find that All Kindness is an example of Someone with a Strength Helping someone with a weakness. The Strong Helping the weak.  Whether it be Older child that steps between the Bully and the victim, or The Lady who Covered your grocery bill when you forgot your wallet. Or perhaps Nurse who Adopts the Terminal Cancer patients Cat, or The Speaker, who Gives voice to the Voiceless.  If you take the time to work it out you can Show how Humanity is the strong helping the weak.  
    Now back to that little question. Why isn't Humanitarianism the norm? Well one reason is all the perversions of true Humanitarianism, Such as Communism, Socialism,among others. Also the anti humanitarian Ideals, such as Imperialism, Capitalism, Fascism, and the like. These are enemies of Freedom And Humanitarianism.   Another Wall in the way of progress Is the non-existent wall between church and state, swell as Bank and State. For example, your political leaders Are motivated mainly by the desire to get into office. So what do they do? They raise money. To get money they have to get Investors to like them. Whats the quickest way to get an Investor to like you? Promise them things.  So now the Investors and the candidate Team up, and now they have to get voters to like them.  How do they do that? Promise them things. You see the pattern? So now the candidate makes promises to investors motivated by profit, and voters motivated by religion, culture, or other under represented ideals. To often what happens is the Ideals of the voters and the profits of the investors don't match up. And whose promises get kept? the ones that are backed by money, because Debt is the true king of capitalism. 
    How would Humanitarianism work as a government? Well It would have to start as a way of life. The strong caring for the weak.  Once that became the peoples main motivation, then you can really start to build. Basic human rights such as housing, fresh water, and food are provided. The ONLY divide between Humanity,Is the Self Declared weakness or strength of each Individual.  The strong are held to a higher standard, But it earns them a voice, while the self proclaimed weak is represented by the strong in government while being encouraged to find their strengths through federally funded self building projects. There Is no shame in being weak for it is in your weakness that the true Humanitarian finds Fulfillment. Is that not what we all crave? 
    The Peoples Humanitarian Party of America.  We are dedicated to the Spread of Humanitarianism to every inch of the earth by education, music, movies, and general Kindness. I am strong and from this point forward I am a Humanitarian. Where the weak Buckle I shall proudly stand Strong.
posted to society by Andy, CTO of Imagination (0 comments)

Petty Officer First Class Kristian Saucier was sentenced when appearing in federal court in Bridgeport, Connecticut. He was sentenced for taking photos of classified areas inside a nuclear attack submarine. The photos Saucier took were classified as “confidential,” which is the lowest rank of protection for classified information and could cause some damage to national security, but not “serious” or “grave” damage. Saucier’s lawyer, Derrick Hogan compared the photos that Saucier had in his possession to Hillary Clinton’s possession of 110 classified emails in her private server. “Mr. Saucier possessed six (6) photographs classified as ‘confidential/restricted,’ far less than Clinton’s 110 emails,” Hogan wrote in the court papers. US District Judge Stefan Underhill said “We need to make sure that every service person understands the consequences of playing fast and loose with important information.” No folks, there's no double standard. It's simply the fact that there is no standard for the political head of a crime family. According to the latest polls, 43% of the voters are oblivious to the truth, and will vote for a know criminal no mater what.

posted to society by Andy, Superintendent of Generosity (0 comments)