Posted on September 02, 2010 at 10:41 AM (UTC)
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I'm a mother of two 5year old and 1year old been married for 5 years .Eversince i got married i was the one who make for a living.During my wedding i shouldered all the expenses and right after that my husband and i put up a business.We ran the business for 5 years and we have to let it go because of economic crisis.We were both unemployed it came a time when we don't have nothing left to eat or even feed our baby.I was so stressed out and i wanna freak out.Then i surf the net and look for some stuffs to earn.Unfortunately upon reviewing my old phone list i happened to browse on an old friend of mine.We have'nt talk for years he does'nt know i was married.I chatted with him over the phone and ask for help that i want to get back to their country.He offerred money and ask me to marry him.I love my family so what i did was i betrayed him...I told him i will marry him right after i go to their country but that was just a lie...i asked for money from him and i got what i wanted...i was able to get on my feet again...open up a new business to sustain my families needs...I was able to buy things that i was deprived of.gain my self's respect back...
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4 responses to Secret Revealed
RE: Secret Revealed
Posted on September 03, 2010 at 01:16 AM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
you obviously feel guilty about what you did to some degree. The man was foolish to give you money.
Perhaps you could start putting some money away each month until you have what you "borrowed" plus some interest and then return it to him.
As a believer in karma I think this is what I would do.
RE: Secret Revealed
Posted on September 03, 2010 at 06:46 AM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
yes i know but im willing to pay him back but everytime i would insist he would just say that he does'nt need money....that he gives that to me with his on will...the guy is like 50 year old single living alone....
RE: Secret Revealed
Posted on September 03, 2010 at 06:14 PM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
So, you got your self respect back by lying to someone & accepting money & promising to marry someone you have no intention of marrying?
GOOD FOR YOU!
You must feel super great about yourself!
RE: Secret Revealed
Posted on September 04, 2010 at 04:45 AM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
i did'nt say that...what i really mean is im back at feet because of what he did...he help me out...i was offerring paying him back which i would really do but he refuses...do you know how it feels seeing yourself unemployed,you get notices because you can't pay your debts,you can't afford to pay your electric bills.and the worst part is you have'nt eaten breakfast,lunch and dinner because you don't have a single penny left to buy food....you can't buy your 7months old baby milk...how can you manage all of this?robbed a bank?beg for help?ouchhh.....
i can take not eating for the whole day or so but seeing my child hungry graving for milk that really breaks my heart....any parent would understand how i really felt that day...