Posted on August 28, 2010 at 05:09 AM (UTC)
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I've never kissed a boy sober. And this really lovely guy just asked me out. And all I can think about is 'oh my god.. i don't know how to kiss him'. I told him I needed a little time to think. And he was fine. I know I shouldn't be so scared..or what do they call it? frigid? but, I can't help it. I guess if I can do it drunk, I can do it sober right..? any advice on how to GET OVER MYSELF?
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4 responses to Fears
RE: Fears
Posted on August 28, 2010 at 06:01 AM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
Just do it sober. You will be fine. Kissing is a natural thing, just go with it. And I might add, its a little disturbing that you have only kissed guys while drunk. I am not being judgemental. Please dont take it that way. I used to be just like you. And my drinking nearly ruined my life. Be careful and use your head ok
RE: Fears
Posted on August 28, 2010 at 09:28 PM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
Yeah, I think I'll just have to go for it haha. Yeah I realised that was a little worrying. I'd just never thought about it before I suppose. Great, thanks :)
RE: Fears
Posted on August 29, 2010 at 08:46 PM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
Go for it - it doesn't get any less nerve wracking when it's the start of a new relationship, pluss the guy is probably just as nervous as you are.
Go for it girl!
:)
RE: Fears
Posted on September 03, 2010 at 01:26 AM (UTC) ( over 1 year ago )wrote the following:
just remember to try and keep your saliva to a minimum and too little tounge is better than too much, i.e don't shove it down his throat!