so theres this guy, we've had a casual thing since summer, so its been awhile. have tons of fun together, and serious IS NOT what im looking for, so its good. but i guess i just wanted him to step up and like do little things. we go out on dates and stuff, and hangout all the time, even in small groups its fine, but a couple weeks ago we went to a party and he just kinda acted like we werent together even though we'd hung out all day. im a tough chick, dont like feeling like anyone even has the power to play me, so i decided to just leave without him and sleep at my friends house even though we'd planned to leave together. i told him this and left. within the next couple days i called him and ended it. I just thought it was the safest thing for me, i didnt want to get played. i didnt really explain why, and now we have a class together where we sit next to eachother and do partner stuff pretty much all day. LAME i still like him, and he said he wants to hangout and talk about "us" which is confusing. but then about a week or so went by and he hasnt made any plans. should i bring it up? is he even worth it? im just super confused. still like him but kinda know that i shouldn't.



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RE: Confused
Posted on March 22, 2010 at 04:05 AM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )wrote the following:
yes bring it up. doing this will comfort him and let him know you feel the same way. why do girls always feel like the guy has to do all the work!?