My family will be the end of me

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Let me start this off with a little needed information, I am 17. 18 In September. I am graduating high school in May and I've already gotten college set up in august. Mind you, I keep a b average grade wise. I have a job, I work three days a week. 4 to 6 hours each time I work plus when I'm asked to stay after or come early. My parents decided early on that they would loan me the money to fix my 97 jetta when it had problems as long as I paid them back.

From here on I'm just going to list, because that's easier;

- my car has cost me over 2,000 dollars to keep running. I would borrow the money from my parents to fix it and then pay them back, my mom decided that each time I got paid she would take my pay check until it was enough. She did not consider that I drive to work, to school, and to pick up my sister and her friend where ever they need to be picked up/dropped off. She continued to do this and not let me have any of the money I was making. Finally my dad convinced her to give me some money for gas. She gave me 30 dollars, my tanks costs 35 dollars to fill from empty each time you fill up. This was after the second pay check(four weeks) of her taking the money from me. She tryed to get me to take on more hours, which I did. Working nights and staying up past 11 to do homework and be ready to take her daughter and friend to school each day at 7:15. Mind you I am a girl, I have to be up at 6 to be ready just in time.

-When my boyfriend and I started hanging out, we would hangout at his apartment. This was easy and fun, we cooked and talked and listened to music. Now my parents would set a time for me to come home, normally like 8 or 9 o'clock (this was on weekends). Now the first time we hungout I was about 5 minutes late. My parents took my computer and phone and made me clean gutters to get to see my boyfriend again. When I finally was aloud to hangout at his apartment again, I got ready to leave and sat down in my car 20 minutes before the time I was told to get home, it took 7 to 10 minutes to get home so I assumed I would be fine. Wrong, my car(google jetta ignitions) would not start, the key wouldn't turn. I sat there fussing with it and finally called my parents 15 minutes before I had to get home, they bitched at me for not having left already and suggested things I should do to get my key to turn. When it finally did after being on the phone for about 4 minutes, I drove home. Assuming that since I had called I would be in the clear for being one or two minutes late. Wrong. I got my phone taken away again. My boyfriend and I had made out a fair bit so I was blushing and they began accusing me of having sex with him. I had not, I have common sense. After that I was not alloud at his apartment ever again(this was back in september)

-after hanging out with him at the mall and the movies and other little places my parents got annoyed with me when I would tell them one place to the next and they put a tracker on my phone. Because they thought I was lying and staying at his apartment instead. I wasn't. 

-Finally we had to cut down to seeing each other only at my house or at dinner. My mom began about 4 months ago telling me that she "didn't feel up to company" or "didn't feel good" or "wanted to have a family night". Mind you, we do not have family nights. My dad works late and my mom sits on her computer. About three months ago, I tried asking in advance. As I did last night, she would agree and say that she would talk to my father. I never got an answer and would ask when I got home 2 ish the next day. She would scoff and tell me that we are having a "family discussion" about the "problems" going on here. 

WHAT PROBLEMS I ask. My sister is failing her classes, she does not clean the bathroom, flush, do her homework, vaccuum, or do what you ask her to. She constantly back mouths my parents and takes her phone to bed(we aren't supposed to do that) She always talks about how crazy my mom is and how bad she wants to smoke. The last couple boyfriends shes had have been knocks, they smoke and drink and call her hoe and are rude to me and my parents.(She's 14 mind you). They take it out on me

They yell at me to clean my car, my sister is the one throwing stuff on the ground in the back seat. They yell at me for spending my money, I have to buy my own shampoo and face wash and makeup and gas and clothes and shoes if I want new ones because my old ones smell. She pays me back plus a dollar after she yells at me to run my sister places or errands shes too lazy to run. 

She tries desperately not to spend time with me, when I call to ask where she is when I get home from school shes out with friends shopping or to lunch or getting her nails done

Today after I cleaned up my sisters disgusting mess in the bathroom, that I have to keep clean for a week so I can get a cat that I have to pay everything for. She tells me father wants me to clean my room by tonight or I'm in trouble. I ask her why not tomorrow, she says dad said tonight. I say but the problem with my room is the clothes right, have you seen (my sisters). She says yes. You need to clean the clothes off your floor and your hamper. I told her I need to get rid of them and this is a process that will take some time. She says do it. Then says we need a family discussion and that my boyfriend cannot come over

there is so much more, so much