so i met this guy real sweet and makes me feel so special and beautuful but when it come to sex it is just so shit.
we waited 1 year bedfore we ddi anything major and when the time came i was excited i guess u could say but when he is in me i dont really feel anything.
and i dont no how to do anything, like hand jobds or anything
i need some advise
how can i make us good



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3 responses to please help me, i need a better sex life, please advise
RE: please help me, i need a better sex life, please advise
Posted on February 09, 2010 at 07:42 PM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )wrote the following:
Wow, for a guy to be willing to wait for a whole year is really rare, so if you're not feeling anything, he must be really small, and for him to wait so long, he knows he's small and might not satisfy you. if you really care about him you need to tell him that you're not satisfied and that you want to try some things - like he uses toys, oral, or fingers on you so that you get enjoyment out of too, since he is! Google sex books, there's a lot of really good ones out there that give instruction for males and females on how to have sex, there's even instruction videos. In the end you need to be educated and so does he since we are sexual beings and a bad sex life will end up ruining the relationship. It's worth the uncomfortable and embarassing conversations.
RE: please help me, i need a better sex life, please advise
Posted on February 09, 2010 at 09:18 PM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )wrote the following:
The way you write seems to me your like 15 or maybe even 17. I wouldnt worry about sex much now. Its worth the wait believe me. You're not missing anything about sex.
RE: please help me, i need a better sex life, please advise
Posted on February 09, 2010 at 10:39 PM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )wrote the following:
No im nealry 20 and i am meant to be getting married but thanks for the advice cause i just dont wanna upset him.