Hear me out before you assume i'm being a bitch...

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One thing I have to talk about is the army relationships. Ifeel very sorry for anyone who has someone in the army, and I know it must be very hard, but i don't think that gives you the right to constantly be ass holes to everyone. On facebook I am constantly seeing posts and things talking about what not to say to these people, which would be fine if it wasn't for the fact they are bitches about it. If I say, "Oh i'm so sorry you must be so worried", most likely I AM being sympathetic and just because yes he is fighting for the country, does not mean you can treat me like a piece of shit because you think i'm being lazy or cowardly for not doing it myself. First of all, i'm underage for it. Second of all, the military just isn't my kind of thing. I don't want to hear you rant about how non military people are idiots and stupid for saying things like this to you "all so important and strong army girlfriends." Just because you are strong for that reason, doesn't mean the rest of us have comfortable lives either. Get over yourselves.