Falling out of love?

Posted on February 06, 2010 at 03:22 PM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago);
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I started seeing my boyfriend in February '09, and I never thought I would be in this position. We've had a rocky relationship to say the least, and it has never seemed to be my fault. My close friends have told me to get rid of him, but I have always stuck by him. I was in love with him. But by the time December had come around, I could honestly say I was fed up with his games. I broke it off, but he seemed more determined than ever to be with me.

When late January came, I decided to start seeing other people. And for most girls, there is always that one guy, that just impresses you and you would kill to get. Well I got him. But my ex still wasn't ready to give up. I'm back with him now. But it isn't the same. I look at him, and I see "dream guy". I don't want to be with him. I don't want to hurt him. I feel like I'm in an empty relationship, just sticking it out when I would rather be with someone else. It pains me to even kiss him.

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  1. RE: Falling out of love?

    Posted on February 08, 2010 at 05:39 AM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )
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    wrote the following:

    You need to tell him how you feel, because this doesnt seem like a good relationship at all. The only thing that is going to come out of this is HURT and PAIN. . .doing something like this is only going to hurt him in the long run, and maybe if you. .if you still care about him that is. .but anyways, you should end this relationship as soon as possible, and move on.

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  2. RE: Falling out of love?

    Posted on February 08, 2010 at 10:02 PM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )
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    wrote the following:

    You dont want to be with someone else you want to be with the guy u are with.

    Your jsut not the person you think you are maybe that hurts...

    Probably you are emotionally liveing in a fantasy with the guy you claim u want to be with.Stop lying to your self and face the choise u have made..

    Best you tell the truth to the guy you think you like

    (haha personal involvement u can filter the harsh context of my lines but the content is true yo)

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  3. RE: Falling out of love?

    Posted on February 15, 2010 at 06:32 AM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )
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    wrote the following:

    Just suck it up and stay miserable with the guy, because you are too lazy to do something about it.

     

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