very lost

Posted on February 03, 2010 at 11:22 PM (UTC) ( about 2 years ago);
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i feel like i am going no where in my life. i went to school to do one thing and now i am not even doing that. now i have a have a horrible job working for a company that scams people out of money and i hate it. but i cant leave my job and have my boyfriend handle everything financially its just not fair. even if he didnt care i still cant find another job. i know i am meant to do something in this world but i cant figure it out. i feel like screaming every day!!! on top of that i am getting lazier and have no motivation. help  help help. please tell me other people out there in the world feel this way. 

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  1. RE: very lost

    Posted on February 16, 2010 at 03:47 AM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )
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    i've felt the way you do for a long time and then i got into some spiritual stuff, you know the secret, law of attraction type stuff and I started on focusing on being happy and it took some time, but by focusing on my spirit and learning how to hear my inner being telling me what i really wanted, things got better, little by little every day. there's a lot of different gurus out there and you just have to find what works for you. but i firmly believe if you ask God/the universe or whatever higher power to help you and you're honest about listening and following through, you'll get all the help you need.

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  2. RE: very lost

    Posted on March 12, 2010 at 01:44 AM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )
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    wrote the following:

    Dear Very Lost,

    You my dear are not alone.  It sucks, doesn't it?  I'm in the same predicament and you seem quite a bit younger than I am.  I just turned 44.  If you are still in your 20's, be patient and try volunteering a few hours per week in your desired field.  Just a few hours per week is all it will take.

    The economy will pick up, but not for (at least) another year or two, so just know that your agony isn't permanent.  Things will get better but not on their own.  Sometimes we have to do some major demolition before we can rebuild.  Hang in there. 

     

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