E. Savarese is using his girlfriend ("J") big time. He's a serial monogamist. Get free before you waste years of your life, woman. Learn to read his body language. Lean to read YOUR body language. Look at the pictures objectively. Open your eyes to what everyone else can see. Love and chemistry is blinding you. Your neediness is blinding you. What you see is not what you get. What you feel is not real. He's not into it, like you are. Not into it FOR what you are. Don't take my word for it. Let the pictures tell you. Bodies don't lie. Take his culture into consideration. All that touchy feely stuff doesn't mean what you think it does. Get yourself free. This is a warning. Look at where his feet, knees, and body are pointing. Away from YOU. Yours are pointing toward him. His hands are in his pockets while you're giving with both hands. Count the signs. Do a statistical analysis! Compare him to you. Learn to spot a phony smile. Live and learn. From one woman to another. I don't want you to suffer like I did.