This is complicated, strap on tight.

Posted on February 18, 2012 at 03:07 PM (UTC) ( 3 months ago);
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SO, I dumped my boyfriend of 3 years, about a month ago. I just stopped feeling for him to be honest. He is really clingy, won't leave me alone etc. Now I really like this guy, we'll call him W. He doesn't know I have feelings for him, and I don't really know how I feel. I look at him and just think he has a really nice smile and is kindhearted. I have suspiscions that he kind of knows in a way that I like him but I'm not sure. I feel sometimes, like he's really interested in me when he asks me questions for e.g about things i like doing, and then other times I feel it's like getting blood out of a stone for him to even speak to me! The other night we both went to a friend's and I was tipsy, but he was barely even tipsy, and I kept holding his hand, and he was holding mine back... Most guys wouldn't do that if there was nothing there, right? Most guys wouldn't even be interested in your hands !!  I don't know what to do about it because I work with W, so if I appear very needy and get turnt down, then I have to deal with that every time I go to work  . . . What do I do? :S

 

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  1. RE: This is complicated, strap on tight.

    Posted on February 18, 2012 at 10:19 PM (UTC) ( 3 months ago )
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    Give it a go, the worst that can happen is it doesn't work out. As for work, It takes some work, but it is possible to keep work and home seperate, even when you work together.

    • RE: This is complicated, strap on tight.

      Posted on February 19, 2012 at 06:16 AM (UTC) ( 3 months ago )
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      wrote the following:

                  I say, SCREW IT honey. You just got out of a 3 yr relationship, that guy isjust your rebound. So, since you will probs not end up taking him seriously, you might as well pick a guy that wont cause conflict in your life or a rebound instead. (E.g, he works with you.... try finding a guy you have no connection with) Thats just my opinion.

       

      GOOD LUCK!!! :D