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1. RE: Age and Distance

   Posted on February 09, 2010 at 09:18 AM (UTC) ( almost 2 years ago )
   

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   wrote the following:

   She is not ready for a realationship. though you might think she is mature the turth is she is still finding herself and experienceing life. If she is tied down to a relationship at a young age she might regret or even resent you for lack of experience with guys. I know this because I got engaged to my husband at seventeen and he was twenty-four..

   The difference with me dating a guy older is that i was ready because i didnt want to date .. i did not have experience in the dating field too much but i knew it wasnt for me...i knew i just wanted to find one person to spend my life with.

   but to wrap things up...i do not think you guys should get involved with eachother because

   1. you guys have feelings for eachother to jusst "hookup" and then try to be chill after that, it will get too awkward and too messy

   2.right now she is getting her life experience just like what you were probably doing at her age. Let her get that out of her system and ithen try to see if you guys can date. in the mean time you try dating other people..and who knows you might like someone else who is willing to commit to you 

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