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1. RE: I'm really scared because of this guy

   Posted on December 23, 2009 at 05:25 AM (UTC) ( about 2 years ago )
   

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   wrote the following:

   You don't understand how misleading your communication is: 

   "ummm no I just got up early and I'm nto in a greta mood and so cannot be bothered with anybody really"

   Just realize, that by lying to him here, you are sending out the vibe that HE is NOT  the problem, when in your mind he really is. He assumes "not me, I can still pursue". You need to be honest and tell him "sorry, even tho I am flattered, I am not into you", and do it while one of your friends is nearby so that you are not alone with him. 

   Good luck. 

    

    

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