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RE: What is love???
Posted on July 09, 2009 at 05:46 PM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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by the way, i now just told the new girl about my wife's situation. the new girl seems to be very thoughtful, and have given me some good food for thoughts...but i have not yet expressed my feelings for her...not sure if this is a good time now...
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RE: What is love???
Posted on July 23, 2009 at 02:24 AM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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i have made my decision to have a divorce with my wife.
anyone has any ideas on how and when i should tell the new girl about my true feelings for her? I told her that I have decided to have a divorce with my wife. We actually went to a marriage counselling, and at the evaluation stage, the counsellor had alrdy said that it seems i have already made up my mind in having a divorce...thus afterward the counselling (we went together, but was called in separately to meet with the counsellor), i told my wife that I would still like to have a divorce.
now the new girl knows about my decision...how and when i should tell the new girl about my feelings about her? any feedback would be greatly appreciated...i feel i don't want to wait for too long, or else i may lose the new girl to someone else...
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RE: What is love???
Posted on July 27, 2009 at 12:28 AM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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an update!
After I have made my decision to have divorce with my wife. I confronted with the new girl about how i feel about her. I just dropped by her place on Sunday, and she had cooked lunch for us. Then she asked my couple of times why all of a sudden, i dropped by her place...i was too nervous to tell her the truth, but i just said "for no reason"...
after eating lunch, she had to do some work, so i decided to leave. However, in the morning when i leave my place, i went to the flower store, and got her a pink rose...so after i left her apt, i was just outside in my car, pondering how do i give her the flower and confess about my feelings.
not until about an hour later (i'm satting in the car, which AC full blasts), i decided to call her again to let her know taht i have something for her, and that's why i dropped by...she was surprised taht i was still outside, and when she came out, it took me awhile to give her the rose, and she said she knew something was giong on with me, which is very strange, and she had a hunch...
anyways, i told her how i feel and she was still concerned about my divorce and in which i have not even done the paperwork...she said there is definitely potential for me, and she said right now is not a "NO", but she wants to make sure that I'm able to fully resolve my issue with my wife and the divorce.
she is a very caring person, and i'm glad i had told her about how i feel. I will do my best to resolve the issues and move forward. i look forward to the future. as for my wife, i think i'll need to move out soon, and get the temp green card status worked on, and then it should be fine...
thank yoy all for your comments. i'll update this again when there is update to do!
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RE: What is love???
Posted on July 09, 2009 at 05:44 PM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )wrote the following:
Thank you again for sharing your thoughts. I think one of the main reasons that I can't let go is because I feel sad/pity for my wife, if i do leave her...
not sure if this is the right feeling. therefore, my friend/parent had told me not to think with my heart, but with my head...