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  1. RE: What is love???

    Posted on July 09, 2009 at 02:19 AM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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    If you don't have any children and feel like you can part at aleast half of your finances, I say to get a divorce.

    I personally have been cheated on three times (three difference relationships) and trust will never come back. If it was a one time thing, then maybe you can forgive but anything more than once (for you its a year), is not exceptable. There is no excuse she can give you that justify her cheating on you for a year.

    Get a divorce and start enjoying life for yourself. There is no need to be considerate to her since she had no consideration for you.

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  1. RE: What is love???

    Posted on July 09, 2009 at 05:44 AM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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    We don't have any children, and the finance part shouldn't be too much of a problem for me. 

    somehow, when this happens to most people, they get angry.  I, somehow, don't seem to be angry, but very very disappointed at my wife. 

    somehow deep inside, it maybe hard for me to part, I don't know why.  I asked again to my wife why she had cheated on me, she said she didn't know the consequences until now.  She didn't know how much it hurted me, and how much i had actually trusted her previously.  Now, she says she know how much trust she had lost from me.   She seems to be very sencere.  Again, i have spoke with my parents, and they seems to be agree with most of you where they encourage me to have a divorce asap, and then start my life again; whether the new girl can be with me or now...

    I guess it's very difficult to throw again 5 years of feels, time, etc...I'm still struggling...I usually go with my instinct, but right now, it seems to be no answer for me...any other inputs would be grealy appreciated, as i gather all my thoughts

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    • RE: What is love???

      Posted on July 09, 2009 at 08:23 AM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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      wrote the following:

      There is really nothing else other people can say. Everyone handles things differently.

      The correct decision lies within your heart.

      You are lucky that you do not feel anger. I feel anger almost everyday. it is very hard to move on. I am pretty much a lost cause.

       

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      • RE: What is love???

        Posted on July 09, 2009 at 05:44 PM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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        Thank you again for sharing your thoughts.  I think one of the main reasons that I can't let go is because I feel sad/pity for my wife, if i do leave her...

         not sure if this is the right feeling.  therefore, my friend/parent had told me not to think with my heart, but with my head...

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        • RE: What is love???

          Posted on July 09, 2009 at 05:46 PM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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          wrote the following:

          by the way, i now just told the new girl about my wife's situation.  the new girl seems to be very thoughtful, and have given me some good food for thoughts...but i have not yet expressed my feelings for her...not sure if this is a good time now...

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