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1. RE: Struggling...

   Posted on June 29, 2009 at 04:07 PM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
   

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   Just talk to him.  Find out what he feels, be there for him through his struggle in this, because I'm sure it's not easy for him either.  Let him know you love him and are there for him always.  Let him know what your worries are.  

   Personally I think he should just do the responsible thing, talk to this other woman, and let her know that he is married and can't be doing all this.   I also know it's not easy, when facing the ghosts of the past and wondering what could have been, and what might still be.  

   I guess what I'm trying to say is always to stick with him, show him you love him, talk to him, and let him realize how good he has it there with you.  Tell him how you feel about him being with this other woman (don't do it in an angry way of course) and I'm sure he'll realize what he has and let the other woman go.

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1. RE: Struggling...

   Posted on July 03, 2009 at 03:52 AM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
   

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   Yes, i have been doing that...he has come around and i've been proving to him how much I do love him. But it is me that I can't trust anymore..seems that I just find a constant reminder of what happen between them, then I start drilling him and trying to know the reason "why was I not good enough for you"?? Its these crazy ideas I get and I just want to scream and let him know how I really feel, but then I don't. I ignore it and move on...and i'm not that kind of girl that just lets it get away. But, lately I've been doing for the sake of my boys....and that's the way I guess I would have to really work on myself before I go throwing all away...thanks your response was truly appreciated.

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